Lesson One: 

Sometimes your old life has to fall apart before your new life can fall together.

Lesson two:

The job, the party, the relationship - knowing when to leave is so important.

Lesson Three:

Fitting in will make you miserable. 
Be your own uncool weird self and whoever still wants to hang around you, keep them close.

Lesson Four:

Stop sexpecting honesty from peaple who lie to themselves.

Lesson Five:

It's not your job to fix insecure people. 
It"s your job to fix the part of your that resonated with their insecurities.

Lesson Six: 

At any minute, someone can come along and change your life.
That person is you.